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Can energy psychology and the power of your conscious and subconscious communications influence the quality of your life and relationships?  Today’s blog on energy psychology is dedicated to sharing the profound wisdom of the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. If having happy, healthy, and harmonious relationships with your family, friends, and fellow workers are important to you then this blog may help. When we find the education, information, and motivation that helps us learn more about how our hardware, programming, operating system, and software work we can better tap into our energy psychology for a peak personality with other people. With the benefit of understanding the Five Love Languages, we can improve our relationships and implement new beliefs, behaviors, and benefits that can help transform the quality of our life by creating raving relationships.

The Five Love Languages offers simple suggestions to help you be consciously aware of your communications and connections with other people and yourself. Love language is the concept of each person having different and unique personality traits, preferred communications style, and programming that works like powerful helpful hints, hot buttons, and hyperlinks that help us communicate and connect on a deep level.  We each have a heart, mind, and soul software program that resonates with our values, vibration, and vision. Our Five Love Languages are like the unique combination that helps with cracking the code for how we communicate and connect with others to feel happy, heard, and honorably appreciated.  Understanding how each person filters their model of the world through the Five Love Languages is essential if you want to enjoy a happy and healthy relationship with family, friends, and future contacts.

The Five Love Languages are like the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual programming that governs, interprets, and regulates how we feel about our relationship with others. It combines and connects the dots regarding how we best experience, feel, hear, process, say, see, and touch the people and places we interact with. The mechanics of the five love languages is a process happening externally and internally that is like the central processing unit (CPU) in our brain and heart.  The Five Love Languages have been shown to positively influence our own emotional, mental, and physical well-being as well as others we interact with.

Energy psychology is the art and science of tapping into the world of wisdom that can enhance the human experience of life to a happier, healthier, and higher level. The Five Love Languages offers helpful information and research that has been focused on the many positive benefits of being aware of our ways to feel comfortable, comforted, and connected, The Five Love Languages will help you learn how to reprogram, rewire, and rewrite your emotional, mental, and physical relationships to enhance your happiness, harmony, and health.

The passion and purpose of Morningstar NEWS are to help people with education, information, inspiration, and motivation to discover the best that energy psychology has to offer. The Five Love Languages are so helpful and powerful that they should be taught in all schools to help students improve their happiness, harmony, and health.  IMO The Five Love Languages is a must-read book for every adult, child, employee, leader, manager, parent, and public servant. It will greatly enhance communications and understanding that will lead to greatly improving the emotional, financial, mental, physical, relationship, and spiritual stress and struggles that many people are facing.

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Love and Relationships

It is well known that people have different boundaries and rules regarding how they accept, appreciate, and receive love. Think about rules relating to birthdays, compliments, connections, holidays, hugs, and touch. Some people want you to say you love them and others want you to show that you love them. Others may feel uncomfortable or unloved if you meet your love language but not theirs. Understanding love languages is very important when children are growing up and will have a significant impact later on when they are adults. Often time’s people that do not receive the attention and love in the way they desire may go looking for love in all the wrong places. They may wind up being hurt and taken advantage of. This is especially true of children who are not given the connection, love, and nurturing in the way they need and want it.

Communications and relationships are areas where many people struggle because there are so many potential complications, conflicts, and confrontations that occur and seem outside of our control. Many of our behaviors, beliefs, and habits are the result of our family upbringing which programs our emotional, mental, and relational operating system, programming, and software. While people may have the best intentions, they will either pass down the behaviors, beliefs, and habits they received from their parents or receive the programming of their parents which influences their current and future patterns. Each person needs to schedule a time to “study success strategies” and “thinking time” to see where they can improve their communications and connections. There is an art and a science to enjoying and experiencing great relationships and it takes commitment, determination, and motivation to create raving relationships. Some great references, resources, and role models can be found in The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

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Five Love Languages

The Five Love Languages is an excellent book for coaching and guidance on relationships. Learning the five love languages and understanding how to apply them to yourself and others will lead to being happier and healthier in your communications and relationships.

The Five Love Languages are:

  1. Words of appreciation
  2. Quality time
  3. Giving and receiving gifts
  4. Acts of service
  5. Personal connection and touch

Please be sure to read the book if you want your relationships to be more happy, healthy, and in harmony. Reading a one-paragraph summary of the Five Love Languages is similar to reading a one-paragraph review of a movie instead of watching the movie. There is no way to receive full enjoyment and pleasure by reading an overview of his book. You must read the Five Love Languages to learn the powerful information he shares.

Call to Action

Most people can benefit from investing the energy and time to find more helpful information regarding interpersonal communication and specifically learn the Five Love Languages. It may even be worth getting some helpful coaching on communications, listening, and relationships to help you update and upgrade your skills. Consider reading the other Five Love Language books Gary Chapman has written. You may also benefit from the Five Love Languages Apology if you have issues, reasons, stuff, or things that need to be resolved to make amends and move forward. Creating raving relationships is a journey we can all benefit from by getting some communications coaching.

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Helpful Hint

Remember …to create and enjoy raving relationships requires us to be able to walk a mile in their boots, mocassins, or shoes to have a better understanding of the programming that influences behaviors, beliefs, and best practices for being appreciated and understood. The Five Love Languages will help your relationships.

Passion for People & Planet

The passion and purpose of Morningstar NEWS are to condense hundreds of hours of reading and research down to two minutes of education, information, and inspiration. This blog serves as a reminder that our relationships with family, friends, and fellow workers play major roles in our happiness and health.

“Remember…we all want to feel heard, loved, needed, and understood. The Five Love Languages will help you better understand how to do that for those you care about and for yourself. Our mental programming requires some simple adjustments to help us better understand the different models of the world people have.” —Michael Morningstar

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